Sometimes the problem starts with a small phrase: "This is mine."
The Elephant Learns to Share - a book about sharing from the Important Behaviors series presents a situation close to the reality of children: a new gift from Grandma (a bat and a ball), great excitement… then a simple discovery: playing alone doesn’t mean much, and joy doesn’t last if its circle is narrow.
The elephant keeps everything to himself : the board game, the art supplies, even his recess food. We see his friends hesitate to approach him, and we also see how the atmosphere changes when he clings to what he has: anger, withdrawal, and sad eyes. As the situation unfolds, he learns step by step that "sharing" isn't giving up, but a smarter way to keep the game going and the friendship going.
What does the story add to the child?
It helps the child understand the impact of selfish behavior on the feelings of those around him, through clear examples within the story.
It opens a practical door to training in cooperation and love of good for others at home or in the classroom, without a lesson, lecture, or direct instruction.
Whose story is this? And how is it used?
Perfect for bedtime reading or as an opening to a classroom activity about behavior. After reading, ask your child, "In the color situation, what's the fairest solution?" You'll find the conversation flows easily. It also makes a lovely gift for children in reading clubs and competition events.
A brief overview of the author and publisher
Written by: Sue Graves. Illustrated by: Trevor Denton. Publisher: Nectar Books.
Frequently asked questions about the story:
Would a quick classroom session work? Yes; a short reading followed by a discussion of one position.
Does it help reduce sibling conflicts? It helps through a common language that recalls situations without tension.
Choose it if you want a story that will "serve" you in parenting... and leave the child space to understand and experiment.